Monday, August 29, 2011

Love and kisses



Most of you know from watching my posts and reading my status updates on Facebook that I love my dogs as if they were children. When we lost Hunter this spring to cancer it broke my heart and it has remained broken since. I still can rarely speak of how much he loved us without choking up. As some of you may know we added another little angel to our family about 2 weeks ago. Sofia is an adorable 10 week old Italian Greyhound. She began to heal our hearts a bit. It is difficult to get too depressed when you are getting puppy kisses. However this healing heart lasted only a week and a half as our adorable Lexi became ill over this past weekend and was accidentally diagnosed with a tumor on her spleen. Immediately the heart break returned with a vengeance at the thought of loosing yet another beautiful soul to this horrible disease. For the worst 24 hours of my life thus far I began to grieve the loss of this unconditional love machine, and try to imagine our lives without her. Lexi loves to sun herself regardless of the temps outside and the one thing I could not get out of my head was how she would love our new house with so much land and sunning space and how not having her there would make it a slightly empty place.
I have always believed in the power of prayer and positive thinking but I could barely muster the strength to pray for the second time in a year that God protect and keep my baby safe. This is when the prayers of others came in to play. I realized today just how many people in my life truly understand the relationship that we have with our dogs and how empty our lives would be without them. I felt prayers and well wishes and positive thought coming at us from all directions and our baby pulled through a very serious surgery and is home with us tonight. She is doing well and for that I am truly thankful.
To all of our friends and family who sent us positive energy... thank you... THANK YOU... THANK YOU... You pulled us through when we did not have the energy to do it ourselves.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Questions your dog will never ask you

I read somewhere that 37% of all American homes have a dog and the average dog owner has 2 dogs. America has always had a love affair with our pets for countless reasons. This is information that, if you are a dog person you already know. I didn't realize how special the relationship is that we share with our dogs until I began traveling to third world countries and seeing how animals are treated in other parts of the world. Why do we Americans have such deep emotions for the little four legged members of our families?
Our pets give us something most of us realize we will never truly get from another human being... unconditional love. Don't get me wrong, I love the humans in my life and the people I am closest to could do just about anything and I would still love them, but only a pet will give you true unconditional love just the way you are with no regrets. Following is a list of the questions your dog will NEVER ask you which proves he/she loves you for you and not for what you have to offer them.
1. Where is this relationship going?
2. How much did that awesome dress cost?
3. Did you think you could just go off and leave me with the sitter for a month and I was gonna just let you walk back through that door like nothing happened?
4. You smell like another dog... where have you been... get out
5. Do you think you really need that piece of pie/cake/candy/hot fudge sundae/cheesecake?
6. Are we "exclusive" or can I see other humans?
7. What is in this relationship for me?
8. Are you putting on a little weight?
9. Are you just gonna leave those dishes in the sink until I do them?
10. Are you gonna just lay around in your pj's again today?
11. Can you not stand so close to me in the morning before you brush your teeth?
12. Really... did you have to fart?... I am sitting right here!
13. Really?... Dog food again?
14. Don't you have anything better to do than to hang out and bother me today?
15. Shouldn't you be working out more?
My dogs don't judge me, they don't care how long I have been gone as long as I come back, every time I walk in the door they shower me with unconditional love and gratitude. Even the most pure human relationship cannot give you that all of the time. My dog is just happy as can be to curl up in my smelly workout clothes on while I am taking a shower because she likes to be with me and they smell like me... if you find a human who loves you that much... be afraid.